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Is this the face of reverse racism?

Mother Tara Coverdale was asked to leave a playgroup because it was exclusively for “multicultural” mothers.
Mother Tara Coverdale was asked to leave a playgroup because it was exclusively for “multicultural” mothers. Supplied

IF you don't think that multiculturalism and the politics of identity have become instruments of division in Australia, then you need to hear Tara Coverdale's story.

Like most mothers with young children, Coverdale enjoys opportunities to socialise with other mothers of children the same age while on maternity leave, especially in her neighbourhood in inner-city Sydney.

So when a Russian-born friend mentioned a playgroup on Thursdays, at the Alexandria Park Community Centre, she was enthusiastic.

Two weeks ago, on a humid Thursday morning, she bundled her eight-month-old baby in the pram and walked with her four-year-old son the short distance to the community centre.

When she arrived, her red-haired son raced off to play while she looked around for her friend.

That was when a staff member approached and asked if it was her first day. Coverdale thought how nice that she was so attentive.

But then the woman said: "Can I ask what your cultural background is?"

Taken aback, Coverdale, who has blonde hair and freckles, said: "I'm Australian".

Immediately, the woman said: "I'm sorry, you can't come here. It's for multicultural families and people who speak languages other than English at home."

Coverdale stood her ground: "I said 'I'm not leaving'. My kids were playing. My older son was having such a good time with his buddy, and I thought, 'Why should I leave?'"

But then the centre "facilitator", aka manager, Jo Fletcher, confronted her: "Can I just ask what your cultural background is."

When Coverdale said she was fourth-generation Australian, Fletcher said: "I'm sorry you can't come here. It's a multicultural playgroup."

"We're in a pretty progressive area," says Coverdale. "It's very accepting of all people. But I feel like I'm excluded."

This conversation is an account from Coverdale's recollection. Fletcher did not respond to phone calls and a text message last week, but she confirmed to the NSW Department of Education, which funds the centre, that such a conversation had taken place.

Coverdale said she tried charm in a bid to be allowed to attend the playgroup, but Fletcher insisted it was exclusively for "multicultural" mothers who "might be lonely and might want to build a network of people who speak the same language".

Coverdale asked wouldn't it be better for those mothers to meet someone like her, who knows a lot of people in the community.

"What if I was really lonely and I get sent away from a play group?"

Then she asked what playgroup would she be allowed to join.

"We don't have one here for you," said Fletcher. "You'll have to go up to Erskineville or Newtown."

Erskineville's playgroup is for "Rainbow babies and kids", and Newtown is a 30-minute walk.

The only other playgroup offered at Alexandria Park is on Wednesdays but it is reserved for "Swedish-speaking families", according to a timetable Fletcher provided.

"We're in a pretty progressive area," says Coverdale. "It's very accepting of all people. But I feel like I'm excluded."

And she asks: "How does that help Australia help people to integrate speak English and build a life…

"I pay a lot of tax. I pay my rates. To think I'm actually not welcome is unfair."

The other mums thought her treatment was "terrible… They think it's a great facility and appreciate it but they don't want to exclude people".

While she was at the centre she saw other mothers walk in and, "they were made to feel very welcome. Because they didn't look 'Australian' they didn't even get asked about their background."

So Coverdale and her red-haired sons were ejected from the playgroup.

Ironically enough, it was just a few days before Harmony Day, a big event at Alexandria Park, "to celebrate our country's cultural diversity", with a free halal beef and chicken sausage sizzle. To twist the knife a little deeper, this year's theme was "We all belong".

Just not if you are of "Anglo-Celtic" heritage.

Anti-Discrimination Board Acting President Elizabeth Wing confirmed on Friday that "on the face of it", exclusion from a playgroup "on the basis of race or ethnic background... would appear to be a breach of the [anti-discrimination] act".

After being alerted to the problem on Friday, Education Minister Rob Stokes and his department, to their credit, instructed Fletcher to allow all families to attend the playgroup.

"I was disappointed to hear that a mum and her young child felt they were not welcome... This is not acceptable. Everyone, regardless of their background, should feel included in these wonderful community activities."

The Education Department also has "counselled the program facilitator [Fletcher] regarding the requirement of the program to be inclusive", said a spokesman late Friday.

A good result, but Fletcher is a creature of her milieu. It is politically incorrect to say so, but anti-white racism is now acceptable in Australia, in the name of diversity and "celebrating difference".

In the ADF, for instance, there are attempts to erase the "Anglo-Saxon" warrior culture, and a recent lamb advertisement stated there are "too many white people" on TV, and lined up caucasians sneeringly labelled "white-whites, translucent whites, beige whites, red whites, and dark whites".

Bigotry is condoned as a corrective to so-called "white privilege".

But reinforcing separate cultural identities inevitably leads to the balkanization of Australia and the disowning of our national identity.

Thankfully, Zed Seselja, Assistant Minister for Multicultural Affairs, last month reset national policy, with an approach which emphasises unity and shared values. It's about time.

News Corp Australia

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